Why Do People Forget About Me

Hullo I'thousand 16 and I'm at sixth form. I have quite a few friends, merely not really whatsoever 'shut' friends. I'm e'er in that location for my friends, even if they've done something to annoy me I'll always exist the ane to talk to them no matter what and go along all their secrets. But basically, last calendar week I arranged a grab upwardly with some of my friends from sixth form and a couple others who go to another college. We had a smashing time and it was the first time in ages I felt properly included. Now, me stuck at dwelling house those friends accept put pictures of themselves on snapchat and where I can meet them of all of them out together having a great time. I know that people say information technology's social media's mistake... only either way I'k devastated! Information technology happened with my other friends as well. They all have catch ups together like every other Friday night and never invite me. But when they want something, or they have no one else to talk to they come crawling back. Why??!! Is it worth me being a nice person? I've considered dropping out of sixth form... because of all these problems with my friends but also because I'1000 doing dreadful at my AS levels and I've washed terribly in every single test or mock exam even though I revise for ages. I hope you lot could give me some advice.. thank-you and so much!!!

oh and then familiar! I went through this verbal thing! but bothered with you at certain times! it'southward horrible isn't it? I'd honestly just ride it out, please please focus on school and go your grades! i did that and ended upward at uni with and so many wonderful people! you're only 16! you will look back and realise how footling their friendship meant as you get older! just focus on school and don't let them know it's getting to you!

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(Original post by helengeorge96)
oh and then familiar! I went through this exact matter! only bothered with you at certain times! it's horrible isn't it? I'd honestly just ride information technology out, please please focus on school and get your grades! i did that and ended up at uni with and then many wonderful people! you're but sixteen! you volition expect back and realise how fiddling their friendship meant every bit you get older! just focus on schoolhouse and don't allow them know it's getting to y'all!

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Thank-you so much! It's good to know that someone similar yourself has been through the exact aforementioned thing

(Original mail service by Anonymous)
Hi I'grand 16 and I'one thousand at sixth form. I have quite a few friends, but not really any 'close' friends. I'm always in that location for my friends, fifty-fifty if they've washed something to annoy me I'll ever be the one to talk to them no affair what and keep all their secrets. But basically, last week I arranged a catch upwards with some of my friends from sixth form and a couple others who become to another college. Nosotros had a keen time and it was the first time in ages I felt properly included. Now, me stuck at abode those friends have put pictures of themselves on snapchat and where I can see them of all of them out together having a great time. I know that people say information technology's social media'south fault... merely either fashion I'm devastated! It happened with my other friends likewise. They all have catch ups together like every other Friday night and never invite me. But when they want something, or they have no one else to talk to they come up crawling dorsum. Why??!! Is information technology worth me beingness a dainty person? I've considered dropping out of sixth form... because of all these problems with my friends only also because I'yard doing dreadful at my AS levels and I've done terribly in every single test or mock test even though I revise for ages. I promise you could requite me some advice.. give thanks-you so much!!!

I had like issues in high schoolhouse. I never had one only "best" friend, but maybe about four pretty close friends who all had other really close friends also. All the time things would happen at lunch where I'd text them and they'd have already left off campus, despite me normally eating with them...I'd be left to wander the hallways awkwardly or become habitation for a bit. In college I would go to parties with one of them (we were a trio just i of us had strangely strict parents) and my other friend wasn't allowed. Then at some point my friend lost her restrictions, and and so those two stopped inviting me, or at least I'd ever be sort of an add-on.
I'm no longer friends with any of them actually... When I see their snapchats they're always selfies, them partying, posing and doing stupid stuff. Don't have many close college friends because I'm so busy but all the people I've met in class accept seemed corking.

Hi! This is happening to me at the moment too. For the by couple of years I have watched my friends exit and spend time together and never bother to even transport an invite my way. I feel like they rub it in my face up by posting pictures on every social media website that they can and have even said to me in the past "Oh, you lot should have come" Well I would have, if you had bothered to invite me, you know? I just experience like its very inconsiderate because when I invite people to do something I invite them all considering I know how it feels to exist left out but I never sympathize how they can go out and not invite others! Anyway... since they have all gone off to university (I'g taking a gap twelvemonth) I have realised that none of them even bother to talk to me, unless they demand something. And then my advice is to just get rid of them, they are not real friends and they volition only continue to brand you feel atrocious, yous don't need that in your life.

my friends always ignore me and I do non know what to practice I need help. I don't sympathize what I have done to them t make them hate me

(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi I'm 16 and I'm at sixth form. I take quite a few friends, simply non really any 'shut' friends. I'm e'er there for my friends, even if they've washed something to annoy me I'll ever exist the ane to talk to them no affair what and continue all their secrets. Merely basically, terminal week I arranged a catch upwardly with some of my friends from 6th form and a couple others who go to another college. We had a keen time and it was the first time in ages I felt properly included. Now, me stuck at abode those friends take put pictures of themselves on snapchat and where I tin meet them of all of them out together having a smashing time. I know that people say information technology'south social media'due south fault... but either way I'1000 devastated! It happened with my other friends likewise. They all have catch ups together like every other Fri night and never invite me. Merely when they want something, or they have no one else to talk to they come crawling back. Why??!! Is it worth me being a squeamish person? I've considered dropping out of sixth form... considering of all these bug with my friends just also because I'yard doing dreadful at my AS levels and I've done terribly in every single examination or mock examination even though I revise for ages. I promise you could give me some advice.. thank-you and then much!!!

Focus on your studies before long yous will head off to University and you will never speak to them ever again.If they do not desire to be your friend then don't forcefulness yourself upon them in that location will be someone who will desire your company and friendship just every bit much as you lot do and they will be faithful and a phone call abroad these people are not those sort of people.They are not worth your time they will be the ones missing out not you.I am certain y'all are a very nice person and they will be the ones missing out on the privilege of being in your presence and company.Don't worry most information technology if they don't appreciate y'all then don't waste your time and energy on those people they clearly don't know when in that location is something good (you) even if it sat on their face up.

(Original mail by bethansianrow)
my friends always ignore me and I do non know what to exercise I need assistance. I don't empathise what I accept washed to them t brand them hate me

They are not friends if they don't value your friendship and company I would non waste my energy upon them they will be missing out not you if you are not their friend.Trust me I used to chase people giving a friendship my all and they did not even care most our friendship.It is something wrong with them if they cannot see the value of beingness your friend not with you i would non exist friends with these people you probably will never see them again when you go out your schoolhouse.

(Original postal service by Bearding)
Hi I'm 16 and I'm at sixth class. I take quite a few friends, simply non really any 'shut' friends. I'k always there for my friends, even if they've done something to annoy me I'll always be the i to talk to them no matter what and keep all their secrets. But basically, last week I arranged a catch upward with some of my friends from sixth form and a couple others who go to another college. We had a great fourth dimension and it was the commencement time in ages I felt properly included. Now, me stuck at habitation those friends have put pictures of themselves on snapchat and where I can come across them of all of them out together having a groovy time. I know that people say it'southward social media's fault... but either way I'm devastated! It happened with my other friends too. They all have take hold of ups together like every other Friday night and never invite me. Simply when they want something, or they have no one else to talk to they come up crawling dorsum. Why??!! Is it worth me being a overnice person? I've considered dropping out of 6th course... considering of all these bug with my friends just also because I'm doing dreadful at my As levels and I've done terribly in every single exam or mock exam fifty-fifty though I revise for ages. I hope you could give me some advice.. give thanks-you lot so much!!!

nah dont drop out because of some hoes. This is what you lot're gonna do. You're gonna go through everything yous done incorrect and your gonna go sikk grades. Then you're gonna act equally prestige as f when you practise start getting dem sikk grades. Be a stuck up **** and own it g

Humans are proper idiots merely you just accept to put up with it because they're all around you.

Basicly, I have the same prob. I have been friends with a lit of people that just made new friends and forgot well-nigh me. And that really tears me downwards. For example, I take a rly rly skilful friend and she got another friends and she simply replaced me. She only talks to her, would exit me in the center of a converation... and another

I guess i'm pretty late now.But anyhow, next fourth dimension you don't feel included or feel annoyed by them tell them. This will make you lot closer to them or make them leave y'all out even more. Depends on what kind of friends they were.Ready for the risk?You tin can only become close friends with someone when they actually know yous and accept yous despite your quirks😊.........
I endure fom the aforementioned problem though!😂

All my secondary friends are also having a not bad time at 6th grade and higher, and I feel as if i am the only one who is non enjoying herself.

Hey, im xiii and i noticed the same thing. Ordinarily what happens is is they are all in a telephone call , i asked to be invited just im totally ignored. what i have decided to do is not bother with them wht so ever, and if they bulletin me and ask me why i have been gone, or offer to invite me, ill know they are true friends. if not, sick know i was existence used. try the same, it will open upward your eyes

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